- Yesterday was a day not to forget. I woke up early in the morning and mother was already nagging. She was sick and it cant be blamed. Well, anyway, we're so used to it that i wasnt affected at all.
SG (NS) Gabin Wu, one of my good friends, left for australia yeasterday. He's enrolled in a local Uni there for 1 and 1/2 years in Biosience I think. We started to meet him at the airport at 3pm. Then we proceed to have a last farewell hightea with him at the burger kings. It was really a big group. A lot of my seniors and juniors were there. Its felt really good to see them again. It wasnt til 7.30pm that we sent Gabin off. He was well blessed by our well wishes and we each received a warm farewell hug from him.
Dear Gabin:
Work hard and dont give up. No matter what obstacle u may meet, try to overcome them and dont give up. All of us will be supporting u from behind. Yea, and we really hope to see u soon.. Best wishes...
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Lulu's birthday pics
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- Celebrated lulu the chicken's birthday today( which will be on the 31st july). Most of us would'nt be free on that day (Zhisheng started schoolon that day, sandy had something on.. and so on) so we decided to celebrate it early before everyone gets tied down with work.
Lulu's b'day celebration was a simple one spent at the Swendens. We bought a wallet for him (he seriously needed one!) and sandy had 5 small bottles of vodca for him. Funny part is, when lulu open one of the bottle and pass around for everyone to have a sip, teong drank like half a bottle. Yew! I bet his throat will burn like hell. Yea, and we paid for lulu's meal and bought him a swenden's birthday cake. I thought the swenden's stuff would like dim the lights and release some nice birthday songs or something. But that didnt happen. Well.. doesnt really matter. In the end, we sang the b'day song (without the music). Oh, and the cake is really hard to cut. We have to use our commando friend bennett to cut the cake.
A simple birthday celebration filled with sincerity, love and friendship.
Happy 21st Birthday Lewellyn!
P.s. Damn u didnt mention my name and chee hao's name in ur sms. Im JEALOUs! lol just joking.
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| Your EQ is 127 |
 50 or less: Thanks for answering honestly. Now get yourself a shrink, quick! 51-70: When it comes to understanding human emotions, you'd have better luck understanding Chinese. 71-90: You've got more emotional intelligence than the average frat boy. Barely. 91-110: You're average. It's easy to predict how you'll react to things. But anyone could have guessed that. 111-130: You usually have it going on emotionally, but roadblocks tend to land you on your butt. 131-150: You are remarkable when it comes to relating with others. Only the biggest losers get under your skin. 150+: Two possibilities - you've either out "Dr. Phil-ed" Dr. Phil... or you're a dirty liar. |
Damn.. just 4 points from the next grade!
`Sometimes @ 12:02 AM
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`Sometimes @ 10:12 PM
- Got nothing to do, so i thought i'll upload my ASLC video.. The file is too big, so i broke it into 7 parts.Beware.. some parts needs parental advice and viewers discretion..
`Sometimes @ 9:08 PM
- I just read this very interesting article in a magazine...
Love and Obsession
Love is caring, nurturing, mutually supporting and giving. It is focused on the needs of the beloved. Obsession is self-centred, ferocious and cruel. It happens when you cannot function as a person on a daily basis without thinking of your object of affection.
When the other person becomes the centre of your universe and everything within your life revolves around him/her, you have an obsession. When you are unable to work, take care of yourself or perform normal daily activities because your mind is constantly on the other person, you have an obsession.
Another form of obsession is refusing to accept that a past relationship is over. The relationship may have ended a few weeks, months or years ago, and the other person may have moved into new relationships. But the obsessed person refuses to acknowledge this, and spends every waking moment trying to find ways to get back togther with his/her ex.
Solutions:
1. Spend time with your favorite people, other than with your object of affection
2. Do your favorite things, alone or with family and friends, without him/her
3. Talk to someone about your feelings - speak to a trusted adult such as your parent, a counsellor, teacher or clergy.
When the other person becomes the centre of your universe and everything within your life revolves around him/her, you have an obsession. When you are unable to work, take care of yourself or perform normal daily activities because your mind is constantly on the other person, you have an obsession.
Another form of obsession is refusing to accept that a past relationship is over. The relationship may have ended a few weeks, months or years ago, and the other person may have moved into new relationships. But the obsessed person refuses to acknowledge this, and spends every waking moment trying to find ways to get back togther with his/her ex.
Solutions:
1. Spend time with your favorite people, other than with your object of affection
2. Do your favorite things, alone or with family and friends, without him/her
3. Talk to someone about your feelings - speak to a trusted adult such as your parent, a counsellor, teacher or clergy.
`Sometimes @ 5:23 PM
- 8 more days til school starts...
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=What type of Mythical Sprite are you?=::. -With Anime Pictures and detailed answers-
Unique, mystical, insightful and beautiful.You are a Snow sprite. Mysterious, and alluring you naturally attract people to you, your like a people magnet even though you most often wish to be alone. Your love for cold climates and snow has given you an insight into the beauty few see. While most see bland white you see a forest or blanket of sparkling white beauty. To you life is something precious and you intend to figure out its mysteries. You are very mature and don't waste your intelligence on childish games or people not worth your time which can make you seem arrogant at times but you are really just intent on saving your time for better things. Your soul is very beautiful if not a little shut up, you keep your emotions hidden from everyone and therefore they don't know what your capable of. You are a living fantasy.
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Often, we long for someone's love and concern. But always, we dont see that they are actually showing their care and concerns in another way, usually not recorgnised by us. Their love and concerns are always there for us, its up to us to reach out our hands to grab on to it...
`Sometimes @ 8:44 PM
- just realised tt u cant see the word using internet explorer.. guess u'll have to use mozilla firefox.. sry :P
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What type of Tea are you? {-With Anime Pictures!-}
Chamomile Tea...You are Chamomile Tea.Your an original! Helpful to anyone in need and always willing to lend a hand, you take action but not through violence. People listen to you for you have a knack for giving wonderful advice! Many look up to you and you try your best not to let them down. You have many friends steadfast or no who consider themselves lucky to be near you. You may have been hurt in the past but you dont let that stand in your way! You have a wonderful outlook on life and try to see the good in people which is an awesome gift!
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.:-What is your true element?-:. -With Anime Pictures and detailed answers-
Your element is earth: Wise, solitary, mysterious and loving. You are very wise. Your wise as in you know things others do not. You can see past the stereotypes and see the real people behind their facades, people will often come to you for help and advice. Quite solitary and somewhat shy around people because you prefer animals and plants. Animals aren't afraid to show themselves or what they are feeling and plants are fun to nurture. You are very strong in your silence, if you set your mind on something you will often times pursue it to the end. Sometimes you just want to get away, so you seek refuge in the forest where you can have time to think and try to sort out your emotions. The sound of the wind usually calms you, especially moving through the trees. Life to you is something precious and should not be taken for granted.
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`Sometimes @ 3:13 AM
- July 16
Last year, i was still in training cadre, most probably preparing equipments and indenting stuff for the NDP carnival 05 at marina south. How time flies man... I could still remember how it all happened.. the late night rush, the overwhelming crowds, the pride, confidence and professionalism that we had in us. Though tired, we were really satisfied with wat we had done..
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Happiness Vs Unhappiness
Are u happy with ur life right now? Have u really really been happy before?
Sad to say, i've never been really really really happy before. There are of course little bits of happy moments in my life, but its the unhappiness that makes up the majority.
From young, i've been a remote toy made by my parents.. especially my mother. Im not allowed to do this or do that unless approved. Even now, she is still trying to control my life. Though she doesnt interfer with my circle of friends, she's still trying to control my decision making for major events in life. She doesnt allow me to go overseas with my friends, she doesnt allow me to live in hostel.. etc. Not only am i affected by her "supremecy", my sisters were affected too. And its not tt i've never rebel against, but im just too sick of it. I really had bad bad experience with her. Now, she doesnt quarrel with me anymore.. she nags. And im super afraid of her nagging. SUPER AFRAID. Just to stop her from nagging, i'll do what she told me to do. And to everyone, it would seem tt im a mummy boy who still listens to my mother.. whereas im just gathering forces within me waiting for the right moment to break free...
Sometimes i feel really alone in this world...
Im not close to my family as i use to be.. I stopped talking to my small sister after having a big quarrel years ago. Never talk to her for more than 10 sentences for a year... Everyone says that the bond always gets stronger after every fight.. but doesnt seems to works here.
My older sister has a boyfriend now and she is always trying to avoid mother's nagging by going to work early and coming back late. And i never talk to her cause i never found a common topic to talk about.
Never talk to my neighbours cos from young my mother dont like them.. and she prevented us from interacting with them.
Havent see my mother's relatives for like 3 yrs already. Ever since my grandmother died, my mother never had the chance to visit them. She's always working on chinese new year.. Yes, we could go there by ourselves.. but she advised us not to...
For my fathers side.. the relative also seems to be getting smaller. Used to have 20+ ppl gathering for dinner. Now its just left with the few of us. Some left and never come back, and some died. Every yr the ang bao seems to be getting smaller also.. haiz..
Well.. think tt left with only my friends tt i can rely on.. but friends come and go. They have a life of their own too. They make new friends. And soon u'll lose contact with them. Just like how a wife is different from a girlfriend. A wife is a permanent thingy while a girlfriend is only a temporary thingy. Just like family members and relatives are permanent while friends are only temporary. Its just different.
Friends = temporary happiness
Family = permanent happiness
Sad to say, i've never been really really really happy before. There are of course little bits of happy moments in my life, but its the unhappiness that makes up the majority.
From young, i've been a remote toy made by my parents.. especially my mother. Im not allowed to do this or do that unless approved. Even now, she is still trying to control my life. Though she doesnt interfer with my circle of friends, she's still trying to control my decision making for major events in life. She doesnt allow me to go overseas with my friends, she doesnt allow me to live in hostel.. etc. Not only am i affected by her "supremecy", my sisters were affected too. And its not tt i've never rebel against, but im just too sick of it. I really had bad bad experience with her. Now, she doesnt quarrel with me anymore.. she nags. And im super afraid of her nagging. SUPER AFRAID. Just to stop her from nagging, i'll do what she told me to do. And to everyone, it would seem tt im a mummy boy who still listens to my mother.. whereas im just gathering forces within me waiting for the right moment to break free...
Sometimes i feel really alone in this world...
Im not close to my family as i use to be.. I stopped talking to my small sister after having a big quarrel years ago. Never talk to her for more than 10 sentences for a year... Everyone says that the bond always gets stronger after every fight.. but doesnt seems to works here.
My older sister has a boyfriend now and she is always trying to avoid mother's nagging by going to work early and coming back late. And i never talk to her cause i never found a common topic to talk about.
Never talk to my neighbours cos from young my mother dont like them.. and she prevented us from interacting with them.
Havent see my mother's relatives for like 3 yrs already. Ever since my grandmother died, my mother never had the chance to visit them. She's always working on chinese new year.. Yes, we could go there by ourselves.. but she advised us not to...
For my fathers side.. the relative also seems to be getting smaller. Used to have 20+ ppl gathering for dinner. Now its just left with the few of us. Some left and never come back, and some died. Every yr the ang bao seems to be getting smaller also.. haiz..
Well.. think tt left with only my friends tt i can rely on.. but friends come and go. They have a life of their own too. They make new friends. And soon u'll lose contact with them. Just like how a wife is different from a girlfriend. A wife is a permanent thingy while a girlfriend is only a temporary thingy. Just like family members and relatives are permanent while friends are only temporary. Its just different.
Friends = temporary happiness
Family = permanent happiness
`Sometimes @ 2:21 PM
- After finishing watching a chinese movie on the tv, I was left pondering with a question...
So whats the factor in ur opposite sex that attracts u?
Think and search deep into ur heart for the right answer. Different people will have different preferences and answer. The answer can stretch from how a person looks to his positive character and behaviour in life...
Well if u give a direct answer that its the character that counts, then think on the next question...
Well if u give a direct answer that its the character that counts, then think on the next question...
Does 1st impression and his looks affects on how u see a person?
So wats ur answer?
`Sometimes @ 11:12 PM
- Just came back from yiqi's b'day celebration...
HAPPY 21st B'DAY YIQI!!
may all ur dreams and wishes come true! :)
Yea.. i met lots of my old classmates there.. janet, karen, pauline, Benette, kaling,some volleyball friends and not forgetting Daniel...lol.
Yea.. and i met her too.. not sure if its really her though.. havent seen her for 2 yrs now. Well ya.. doesnt really matter now.. let bygones be bygones...
Next few weeks will be kaling, iggy, teong ge and lulu's turn... wow, so many july babies.. broke already la... really need to work soon..
`Sometimes @ 11:52 PM
- I miss my ASLC days soooooooo much...
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- 爱
爱情真的是伟大的吗？ 有些人为了爱情或他心爱的人， 可以不顾一切， 连自己的生命都不要了。 有些人为了让心爱的人得到幸福，成全他与别的男生在一起。难道这就是伟大的爱情吗？
“我是你的守护天使。 我会一直在你的生边保护着你。 当你需要我时， 我和你之间， 只是转身的距离。。。。“
美满的爱情故事，只有在电视上才能找得到。不是吗？ 有时候，我真的很羡慕电视里的爱情故事。因为它们是多么的完美，多么的令人羡慕，多么的令人想拥有它。
为对方负出一切， 却不想让对方知道。。。 这是伟大，还是愚蠢？
`Sometimes @ 11:10 PM
Didnt realised it was NCC day yesterday... Seems to have forgotten totally abt it. My colleages have to spent their "meaningful" at the SYF ceremony. Well.. at least it another one day off for them this coming monday.
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Just went to suren's wedding today. Met a LOT of my old ORD-ed mates. Just feel nice to see them again.
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Bought a pair of 100 over dollars worth of levis jeans yesterday. Hardly spent so much on my clothing.. except for important occassion. Well.. just take it as an investment... lol.
`Sometimes @ 3:37 PM
- Love this song...
Re:member from Flow
`Sometimes @ 2:38 PM
- Suren's wedding tomorrow.
Suddenly got the urge to get a driving license．Hate it when ppl look down on u cos u down have a driving license.
Going to watch Superman returns later. im not alone this time.
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